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Women looking for older men who can give them what younger ones cannot

By Charles Hopkins Published 01/22/2009 | Dating

   

What is it women look for in men? What kind of relationships do most women seek? All that most women are looking for is love, affection and someone who will listen and support them in difficult times, a stable marriage providing a secure financial position.

Unfortunately a large percentage of younger men between the ages of eighteen to thirty-five cannot fulfil these wishes, and on the whole do not know much about what women really need to feel complete. They do not seem to bother about what may interest women, or the fact that they need special attention, whilst an older man will usually give his undivided attention to his wife and family.

This is why more and more women are looking for older men with whom to build a family with a stable and secure life, without fear of being abandoned or neglected. Older men have already gone through a part of life, they have had their experiences, they are worldlier and have faced many situations with respect to the younger men. Older men do not need to seek new adventures, they do not itch for change or new sensations, they have already gone through this phase, they want something special for them as well, they listen and make an effort, they are truly interested in their womens fears or problems, they are there for support in times of need.

Older men are generally more refined and cultured, more gallant than most younger men. They will spend time in serious conversations with their women and offer mature and helpful support; for they really want to please her and make her fell she is special and cherished. Women also seek financial security, confidence in the man, sexual experience and conversation skills; all these things require time and maturity, which only time can engender.

Another aspect that women appreciate in older men is that they are more apt to accept a woman who does not necessarily always agree with him, or does not want to do what he asks. Women have minds of their own and sometimes like to make a point and want to emphasize their opinions. Older men understand this, they also understand that younger women need to be directed at times, and are willing to help if asked.

Younger men often tend to lie back after marriage and neglect their women; no longer take them out to dine and do not romance any more, they just stop making an effort to keep their love alive, with special attention.

The stability of a job and financial fulfilment will also make a difference, for women do not want to have to worry about money or financial problems. This does not necessarily mean they are looking for rich men, but they do appreciate not to have to worry if they will make it to the end of the month. They also particularly enjoy shopping and dining out, and a man who cares for the way he dresses without being self-aware about the way he looks; older men naturally emanate confidence and elegance, and this is what women love.

Women look for older men to provide them with all those things younger men their own age cannot give, they are willing and able to offer a fulfilling life and this for a woman is synonym of a complete and perfect life.