The oldest recorded exchange of engagement rings dates back
nearly 5000 years ago to ancient Egypt when a never ending band was
linked with eternal love. Later for the Romans, a young ladies
acceptance of a ring was a legal agreement and meant that the girl was
no longer available. These ancient engagement and wedding rings were
not gold engagement rings but were often made from simple and crude
bands of iron.
Even in these modern times, the gold engagement ring is still regarded
as a potent symbol of unity and marriage, which sends out a message
about a persons marital status. Traditions have changed over the
centuries and not only have the materials which the rings are made out
of changed, but men too are now choosing to wear a ring as a symbol of
lasting love, fidelity and commitment.
These early tokens which indicated the sealing of a marriage contract,
were certainly very different from what we now accept today as an
engagement ring and probably wouldnt have turned too many heads or
invoked the green eyed monster because of their beauty and brilliance.
In early Roman times rings were simple hoops made out of iron and it
wasnt until much later times that this metal was replaced with
precious metals such as gold and silver which do not rust and are more
attractive.
Although diamonds were discovered in India at the beginning of the
ninth century, it wasnt until 1500 onwards that brides to be would be
wearing something a little bit more special and even then, diamonds
would be very much for the wealthy and for royalty.
Since their discovery, diamonds have always been prized for their
beauty and brilliance as well as their extreme hardness and the word
diamond originated from the Greek word adamas, which means
unconquerable. Some even believed diamonds to possess magical powers
and along with their other properties, this has made diamonds perfect
as a representation of the marriage bond.
When further sources of diamonds were discovered in the nineteenth
century, it increased the availability and they became more
fashionable, particularly set in engagement rings.
Styles of
engagement rings
have varied greatly over the years but still some designs have remained
popular throughout. The single diamond solitaire is a strong favourite
and nobody can resist that big sparkler. The three stone styles have
also remained popular and many still believe that this signifies I
Love You.
Although some ladies have chosen other precious gemstones for their
engagement rings such as rubies, emeralds, opals and many more, the
diamond still is the favourite and as the song says Diamonds Are A
Girls Best Friend.
Platinum has also become a popular although a very expensive
alternative to gold and silver. Recently there has been a surge in
interest in engagement rings made from titanium and zirconium because
not only are these metals attractive, lightweight and very hard wearing
but they are also hypoallergenic. These metals lend themselves well to
more modern styles and the metals can be heat treated to produce
wonderful colour effects which make many rings totally unique pieces as
no two will ever look the same.
Because of their hardness, Titanium and Zirconium are also used to
produce stunning tension set diamond engagement rings, an effect which
would be much more difficult to achieve with precious metals which are
much softer and more prone to wear over the years increasing the
likelihood of the precious stone working loose from the .
Most people wear their engagement ring on the third finger of the left
hand although there are a few European countries where the engagement
ring is worn on the right hand. The reason for wearing on the third
finger of the left hand is thought to date back to ancient Rome and
Egypt when it was believed that a vein that ran through that finger ran
straight to the heart. Many women also wear their gold wedding ring
with a diamond engagement ring and an eternity ring.