5 Secrets of Seduction to Arouse Your Partner
By Charles Hopkins
Published 05/2/2006 | Marriage
There are many ways to express love to your partner other than quoting the actual words "I Love You". Sometimes the "fizz" can easily evaporate in our relationship so the feeling of your heart pounding with the excitement is no longer felt.
So, how do we get back that love of warm feelings that wrap around us and penetrate our thoughts? Many say actions speak louder than words so here are listed 5 secrets of seduction to help you on your way.
1 - Flirt
This is a light-hearted seduction with the intent of conveying love; so why not send a sexy text message? This reminds the other person that you are thinking about her/him. It also increases the intensity of love so that you actually look forward to seeing each other when you return home from work.
2 - Candles
According to Feng Shui, the seduction candle is red and the ingredients are musk, patchouli, pine, cedar and juniper. This secret of seduction can put back the romance in your relationships. Why not turn off the lights and cover your room with lighted scented candles. The extra effort goes a very long way!
3 - Food
It is said that "A way of a man's heart is through his stomach," however this is now thought to be the secret of successful seduction of women too. Show your love by setting up a surprise dinner for two. Add flowers, soft music and incense to create a seductive love nest. Aphrodisiac foods such as oysters, chili, chocolate, figs, honey and walnuts are said to aid in the stimulation of your loved ones hormones.
4 - Love Letters and Poems
Why not leave a note for your loved one? This can be posted in the bathroom or kitchen before you leave to work. You could also leave a nice love poem under the pillow so that your partner finds this at night before bedtime or first thing in the morning. This will stir up the feeling of love in the privacy of your bedroom as well as in your relationship. Inspiration can be taken from music or poem books.
5 - Get Away
There can be a lot of distractions in your relationship such as work or children. There are many short breaks available for the week-end or just for a day. You may arrange a trip to the Health Spa or a Hotel so that you are in a different environment where you can both relax and concentrate on each other.