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What Is It That Most Men Are Not Read To Commit? Find This Out Here

By Michelle L Published 01/16/2010 | Relationships


So you know that men find it difficult to commit easily but do you know why? Are you wondering whether there is any secret tip that can help your man committed to you? First and most importantly, it is important for you to know that just because he is not rushing in to a serious relationship with you does not mean that he does not find you attractive. Some men simply take more time to get serious whereas it takes a short period of time for other men.

If you are wondering about why he is not willing to commit, then there is a high chance that you are already in a relationship with you but he has not shown you that he is serious. One thing you should keep in mind is that since he is already in a relationship with you, he must find you attractive and interesting otherwise he will not be in a relationship. You simply have to make an extra effort to convince him that you are THE ONE for him just like he is the one for you.

Possibly the main reason why he is unwilling to commit to you yet is because of the fact that he has not yet reached the time in his life when he feels ready for commitment. In this stage, he may have two viewpoints:

  1. He is either happy with the way that things are at the moment;
  2. Or he is wants to play the field for some more time.

Of course, just because he is not ready to be serious with you does not mean that you should break things off with him. There are ways to make him feel that he should be committed to you. For this purpose you need to make sure that you let him know that if he does not commit then there are other men who are ready to be serious with you. If your lover really loves you, then he will become jealous when other men approach you and there will come a time soon when he will be ready to commit himself in to a serious relationship with you.

You will know when he is ready to commit to you because he will look at you with love in his eyes. It is difficult to define how he will look or behave when he is ready to be serious with you, but all I can say is that you will know when he is ready for commitment.