Internet dating has become an acceptable process throughout the years. After all, the internet has been with us for a decade now, and all the things it has made possible have become quite common in this day and age, even if some of them were once considered as taboo. Indeed, internet dating was once labeled as a social abnormality that people who can’t find dates in real life resort to for their romantic needs. This gave rise to the general belief that internet daters are a physically unattractive lot.
Of course, such misconception has been dispelled throughout the years. Beautiful people can be found online, and their grace shines inside and out. With the majority of the world having access to the internet, online dating has become a very popular alternative for many, many people, and dabbling in this field can really make you meet a lot of people.
And supposing you do find the girl of your dreams online, how are you supposed to woo her? How are you supposed to win her love and affection?
Here are some tips you could use to hook up with such a wonderful girl you’ll get to meet online.
• Consistency is the key. On the internet, people can disappear like a bubble easily. All you have to do is to stop replying to her emails, or to create a new account which you could use for chatting purposes. Naturally, she’ll have some reservations, given these dangers. You’ll have to assure her that you’re not that type of person, and that you’ll be there for the long run.
• Make her feel special. Though you’re limited to online means, you’re still blessed with a lot of devices that you could use to make her feel loved. Send her an email everyday, with each correspondence chronicling the events of your hours as well as your thoughts about her. Better yet, send her an electronic greeting card to show her that she’s always in your thoughts. Snail mails would also have such great impact in this day and age, as people are more accustomed to receiving digital liaisons. Having a real, tangible letter than she could read before she goes to sleep is something extraordinary these days. You could even send her real gifts, like stuffed toys, pillows, perfumes and the likes. Courier services abound everywhere, or you could do some online shopping and have the items delivered to her doorsteps.
• Always ask how she’s doing. It’s a way of showing her that you care about her welfare. Ask her how her day went. Ask her about how an important meeting was conducted. Ask her about her dog, if need be. Ask her anything, just to show that you’re very much interested with her.
• Try to remember all the details she will share. Girls dig that. They would feel very special when a guy remembers the things they tell them. She would know that you’re listening to whatever she’s saying, and this would make her feel closer to you.
• Always be polite. Respect her. Realize that she can’t be online the whole day, so be thankful for the time she extends to you. This would reflect your personality quite favorably, as she’ll see you as a kindhearted and gentle lad.
• You could do a lot of activities together even if you’re limited to online means. You could play an online game, either cooperative or competitive. You could explore the same websites together. You could post on forums about subjects you’re both interested with. Or you could even write an interactive novel together, with each party taking turns in determining the outcome of the piece. This would provide some bonding sessions between you and her, and would greatly contribute to the closeness you desire.
Cyber relationships would provide a lot of wonderful moments. But do not forget the futility of it all if you would keep an online relationship simply online. At some point, you have to meet each other in the real world so that you could get to experience a relationship as it is meant to be.