I write all about mens gifts, and one of the most common questions I get
asked through my website is "what gift do I buy for my man. He has plenty of
money and buys what he wants, so he already has everything he wants".
This is of course pretty common. Lots of men just get out there and buy
something if they want it, they don't drop hints near birthday time hoping that
the hint will be picked up and acted on. Almost by definition, if he wants it
he's already got it.
Not always of course, often it's a question of cost. There are men with a
list of wants that they would like to fill, but just can't afford them. If your
man is like that, and you can afford those gifts, then ask him and see what
he'll say, he'll probably jump at the chance to tell you about those things he'd
love the most but can't buy for himself.
But lets assume for a moment that your man can afford what he wants, and so
you're a little stuck for ideas for unique and unusual birthday gifts or
Christmas gifts that are going to get his juices going.
Here's 7 ideas for gifts for him. He may love all of them, he may love none
of them, but I doubt it.
There'll be at least one gift for him there that he'll love. Some are
extremely expensive and some aren't.
1. Lingerie. Now it isn't entirely a unique gift idea but it's one that is
almost guaranteed to work. Men love lingerie. Worn by their women of course. I
have seen lots of lists of favorite gifts for men and there is one common gift
theme. Lingerie is always up there.
No matter how many pieces of beautiful lingerie a woman has, if she selects
well and chooses the right piece I can just about guarantee her man will love
it, provided of course she wears it for him.
It's almost a can't fail gift.
And there is wonderful lingerie available for women of any size, so girls
it's no excuse to say that you're a little large. If your man loves you large
he'll love you large and looking great in some sexy lingerie.
2. Adventure gifts. Most men love adventure and adrenalin. Not all, but most.
And many women aren't
aware that there are some excellent companies around that cater to this
extremely well. It's possible to find all sorts of adventure gifts for men and
women that you would never have thought existed.
And for all sorts of tastes. Would he love to do his first parachute jump?
Try white water rafting?
Drive a tank or a supercar? Go zero-g just like the astranauts do in
training? You can give him a gift of any of these things and thousands more,
from the extreme adrenalin gift to the gentle and invigorating and pampering
gift. The adventure gift companies cater for all tastes in outdoors and
adventure and adrenalin, even to beautiful and luxurious days like wine tastings
and spa days. There's something for everyone.
3. An eco holiday. There is a growing worldwide movement to charity and
volunteer and ecological work and travel. Rather than just buy him a holiday in
Europe, which is a little ho hum, why not buy him some volunteer travel with a
difference. There are lots of companies which offer adventure travel with a
twist, volunteer work that helps out those less fortunate than ourselves, both
people and animals and the environment.
He may end up on a research vessel in the waters off Mexico counting turtles
or in the wilds of Africa measuring the distribution of African animals. The
destinations are almost always exotic. There is work to be done but it is so
interesting and adventuruous and invigorating that he probably won't even see it
as work. It's fun, it's exciting, it's adventurous and it gives back to the
environment and to many less fortunate than ourselves helping committed
scientists with their research.
It costs, it's not free, but it's an extremely unique and fabulous holiday
that he's unlikely to better.
4 Chinese art. This is a favorite of mine because I lived in China for a
while and just love Chinese art. We have so many pieces that we don't have
enough space to hang them all. From beatiful Chinese wall hangings to the
absolutely fabuluous and quite unique teapots of Yixing, there are so many
Chinese artworks that would go so well in so many of our Western homes.
And it's so cheap. For the man who loves his art, Chinese art is a gift of
art with a difference.
5. Mens jewelry. Now this is a gift for a man who likes to wear jewelry
obviously, and you need to establish this first. However for a man who does like
his jewerly there are some extremely modern and stunning jewelry pieces
available on the net now at very competitive prices. And they are made
exclusively for men using some of the finest and most masculine of jewelry
metals. Like Titanium. If you haven't checked out Titanium jewelry for men on
the net lately and your man likes jewelry you should do so. It makes for a
wonderful and sometimes extremely romantic gift for the right man.
6. An elephant painting. Another one for the man who likes his art. Painted
by a real Asian elephant on paper which is made from elephant dung. Now before
you wonder if I've gone mad check it out. The elephants really do the painting,
I have a video of it on my website. And believe it or not they paint
recognisable objects. The paintings look great, are extremely inexpensive, and
would make a great artwork to hang near the table to stimulate some evening
conversation with his friends.
And in Thailand, where a lot of the elephant paintings are done, they also
make the most stunning paper from elephant dung. And yes, again I've got links
on my website to sites where you can actually see how it's done, it's not a
fraud. It's beautiful paper, and you can get his elephant painting done on
elephant dung paper.
7. And for the man who has absolutely everything and who won't like anything
at all from number 1 to 6, then buy him a whale. It is perfectly possible to do.
He doesn't actually get a whale wrapped in paper to unwrap on his birthday.
However there are organisations like the Hebridean Whale and Dolphin trust that
track and identify individual whales and dolphins, and allow you to name his own
whale or dolphin. There is a real whale or dolphin out there that is named for
him.
The money helps in the protection of our whales and gives him a unique and
memorable gift.
So there you have it, 7 suggestions for great gifts for the man who has
everything. Ranging in price from 50 or so, to seriously expensive.
Now you don't have any excuses to say "I have no idea what to buy him for his
birthday" any more.
Peter calls himself The Mens Gift Guru and publishes a website called Find That Gift For Him at http://findthatgiftforhim.com/, all about mens gifts, including unique gifts for men at http://findthatgiftforhim.com/category/unique-gifts/