Relationships are the most important part of our life. We can not live without relationships in this huge world. Without this important belonging of life is like a desert. This happens when we put these precious relations into the hearth of conflicts. The more we go away from the relationships like family, friendships etc ourselves will be more deserted. And this is surely the result of conflicts which have made our loved ones so far at distance that we can not get them back, unless and until we make some amendments in our attitude towards them. Else we will imprison ourselves in the cage of loneliness. This threat of loneliness convince us that we have to amend ourselves as far as binding of relationships is concerned. The only choice we have to amend ourselves and bring harmony to the situation. The more we give good response, the more will be the diffusion of the conflicts.
One of the key factor in resolving the conflict is tolerance. The more you bear at your end ,the more you will add sweetness to your relationship. With your attitude make the other one realize that he is always mistaken you. He is misunderstanding you . You have to prove while tolerating his attitude that you do not have any grudge or complaint against him. And also make yourself realize this is the world’s best deed to make your friend, family or relative happy with your attitude.
The other key factor is see the trouble from other person’s point of view. Do not make yourself limited to your self in resolving the conflict. Instead indulge yourself in judging other persons way of thinking. It will surely make easier for you to solve the conflict. Because you will find the answer to the question that “who is wrong?” if you are wrong then amend yourself, if you are not then make your harmonize with your polite and loving attitude. Give worth to harmony. Never underestimate the value of harmony. As this will not only diffuse the conflict , instead it will make your relationship strong and healthy.
If the attitude of your friend make you angry. Try to make him at distance for few days. It will not only help you to normalize you anger, but also help him to understand that his such attitude is not right for the relationship. If he will carry on the same attitude it will be difficult for the relationship to prevail. This is the best way to make your friend realize of his faults and flaws.
When he come back to you say him that he is very precious to you. Also make him realize that for you he is more valuable then before. And try to create atmosphere of oneness among you and your friend. Share his pains and happiness. Do not let him alone in his grief.
And another factor to which you should give value is talking. Talk with your friend because most of the things which are only developed due to misunderstanding. These can be better resolved by talking with your friend.
These all factors will surely help you out in resolving your conflicts. You can find assistance from this article by extracting the factor which better suits your situation.