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Making marriages work and enjoying the marital bliss

By Mansi Ezilon.com articles Published 09/26/2008 | Relationships

"Marriages are made in heaven but celebrated on the earth" is the common proverb that shows the actual reality of marriages. It means God up there has selected a partner for everyone. Everyone will be given the partner according to his caliber and will. God has put the desire of a partner in everyone's heart according to his or her compatibility.

However, searching for the one who has been created for us, our life partner, perfect match or the soul mate, is the most difficult task. Sometimes this search ends with the good partner and sometimes not, i.e. sometimes we are lucky enough to find a compatible spouse and sometimes not.

We select the compatible spouse for ourselves, but forget to give any worth to our own partner. We always force our spouse to do well for us, but forget to do anything good for him. This leads to the problems in our relationship with our respective spouse. This is the main thing that has to be sorted out somehow. This is the thing that will transform happy and prosperous life into hell on this earth. Unless these issues are resolved, it might even result in the breakup of our respective marriage. Hence, to save marriages, certain measures have to be taken when the marriage proposal come our way. At that time, think rationally about all the pros and cons of the proposal, instead of becoming all mushy and emotional. Think of whether you will be happy with this marriage or not? Will you both be compatible to each other? There are several other like question which have to be considered when you are about to take any decision regarding marriage. This is the time when you have to gather all the positives and negatives and evaluate about the forthcoming future, because once you take the right decision, it will be the certificate of your life time happiness.

You have to put all the happiness and joy within this marriage. A good marriage can also lead to a healthy mind and body, while you and your partner understand each other completely. This companionship in a wedding is considered eternal in its sense, as getting married and understanding your partner to utmost extent is not an easy task to do. It involves a lot of sacrifice and understanding on both the sides before a relationship works out. Secondly, honesty and truthfulness in this regard is one of the strongest pillars of strength in a relationship. So if you get this opportunity somehow, try to make it up instead breaking. Give value to your relationship it will help you float in the storm of hardships prevailing in your life.

Marriages are the delicate issue. Once you get into it, you will find the sweetness of love and sympathy. You will be assisted in every walk of your life by your companion. There will be someone for you to share you happiness as well as grief. If you take your responsibility being a spouse of your companion, it will not only distribute your duties but also strengthen your relationship. Moreover, this is the relationship, which will live with you throughout your life lovingly and caringly.

These are the measures that you should adopt to preserve you marriages in this timeless world.