6 Secrets to Be the Nice Guy Women Want
By Ovi Dogar
Published 08/9/2006 | Dating
Sure you're nice - most people are. So what?
This quality is one that reflects your feeling that you're a man worth
knowing and you deserve women's attention. But do you really
believe that women pay attention to what you think you deserve?
Being nice is not enough. Okay, fine, you're nice, but you also need to be interesting.
Unfortunately, "nice guy" equates to wimp/dweeb in too many people's minds.
Believe me: you don't have to be a jerk to attract women!
As a matter of fact, women did not like jerks or aggressive men. They
are attracted by challenging, interesting guys. That is all. You
can be interesting, challenging and still a nice man. Be yourself but
keep in mind these significant things that can make the difference
between a regular nice guy and a successful one.
1. Women LOVE a man who is a CHALLENGE... the quickest and easiest way
I've ever heard to let a woman know that YOU are the guy she should be
pursuing is to let women know you are successful with women. Be a
nice guy, but one that is desirable. :)
2. The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a woman and spark her attraction
for you is giving her a COMPLIMENT on her looks. This can be suicidal
if done wrong... but just find something at her what you really think
is special, different about her. You give attention, and you will get
attention in return!
3. Not being aggressive doesn't mean that you have to wait for madam
perfection to drop into your lap (which you as a "nice guy" deserve by
definition, of course). You have to take some initiative. BE
SELF-CONFIDENT (but not really cocky) and show some honest interest in
something about a woman.
4. The best selling genre of books in the world is romance novels...
because women LOVE romance. So don't talk about sport for God
seek! If you are not the type of man that reads poetry or is able
to talk about moon or about the smell of burned tree leafs, don't do
it. You'll look unnatural. But taking your date in a romantic place,
offering her a nice flower, enjoying some good music or even touching
her hand in a delicate way is very romantic.
5. And don't talk only about you. You want her to listen to you? Then
first listen carefully to her when she needs to be heard. The most
effective way to be interesting is asking questions and� listens. Only
try and you'll see. :)
Keep in mind that often (not always, but very often) when a woman tells
you about a problem she's having, she's not looking to you for the
solution. What? That doesn't make sense? What she's often
looking for is comfort and reassurance and knowing that YOU'RE THERE.
6. One of the most important things in dating is to approach women that
are interested in dating and women that seem to be interested in you.
Don't try to sell candies to someone that is looking for peanuts and
don't waste your time with women that are still affected by their ex
long term relationships. You don't want to be just a shoulder to cry?
You only live once so live your life well!
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