Flirting with Married Women

By Ovi Dogar Published 03/20/2007 | Dating
Flirting is a basic instinct, part of a human nature. It is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. We see flirting as a fun thing; a man flirts with a woman in order to attract her, to ask her on a date.

There are two reasons why people flirt. Guys which are flirting for fun do this because they might seen a beautiful woman and flirt with her, in order to meet her better, to have fun with her,  but not to start a relationship. The others, which are flirting with intent, are more selective about their choice, and want to meet someone for a possible relationship.

The best places to flirt are parties, bars, clubs, disco, and at the workplace.  The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone.

However, you are single and you decided to go to pick up some girls. You dressed up to impress, smell good and start to flirt with a beautiful woman from the club you are. After you use non verbal flirting like body language, eye contact, which indicates intense emotion, or gestures  which can signal interest, attraction and invitation, you see that the beautiful woman is responding you with a big smile and starts a conversation with you.

After you compliment her and make her feel special with you, she tells you that she is married. Is this a big problem for you? If not, if you want to approach her anyway you have to compliment her, show interest about her, and be sincere about it. Jerks hit all the time on married women. That is why you have to show her that she is interesting to you.

Married and flirting do not mix well. However, many people do not consider this wrong as far as it is just for fun. Flirting is like a game but sometimes when you return the flirt things go a little further. Often flirting is spontaneous, it just happens as a normal response to somebody you find appealing.

Dealing with married woman is very different from women that are dating and single; there is a huge amount of stigma applied by family, friends, society, in order to try to keep married people faithful.

Married women are usually looking to find someone with whom to talk about their problems, someone like a friend to understand them.  If she really wants to get into an extra- conjugal relationship means that she has problems in her marriage, she is bored of her husband, or she has a husband that travels a lot and that is why she feels lonely.

That is why she might be looking for someone to offer her what her husband cannot. She is looking for attention, love, understanding. She wants to get much attention, time and affection as possible without having to give up anything, so you will be in her eyes just a friend. You should tell her from the beginning that you will give her all your attention if she would give you what you want from her.

Usually married woman flirt, kiss and play guys all the time but without any intention of taking it further. If it happens to get with her in bed, remember that a woman who is willing to cheat is looking for excitement, drama. However, watch out not to become her toy.

There are married women that need to see if people are still interest in them. Therefore, they begin to flirt to find out if they are still attractive; they lose this feeling because their husbands do not make them feel attractive anymore.  

There are people who consider that flirting with married people is harmless. Therefore, it is at your choice if you really want to flirt with a married woman and if you can handle it.

By the way, most married women entering chat rooms and internet to flirt. Therefore, you may find a beautiful woman at