How to Have an Affair with Your Girlfriend's Best Friend

By Ovi Dogar Published 03/28/2007 | Relationships
You had a perfect relationship and a perfect life since a few days ago. You don't know what happened but for some time your relationship is passing throw a bad episode, because you and your girlfriend were not getting along anymore.

In any relationship things change after some time, it is not all as beautiful as it was from the beginning. Appear a lot of problems, misunderstandings and also many argue. Even if you love your partner very much, if you are arguing every day, after a while you are enough of all this and you may find the consolation you need in other part.

What happen if in some day you are very upset because you and your girlfriend were arguing again, so you decided to go in a club with your friends at a beer to calm down a little? But there she is: your girlfriend's best friend, a beautiful, sexy and available lady which sees you and get in talk with you.

You are talking with her about your girlfriend and how hard it is to understand with her in the last days, that you are not getting along anymore, that's why she upsets you every day. You are enough of all of this, and you need someone who understands you, love you as the way you are.  She understands you and offers her help to get throw this.

She was flirting with you until the day you met her, but now it was her chance to get you. Because she is very beautiful you couldn't resist to her, and you spend that night with her, because she offered you the understanding you needed. You slept with her, but what's next?

You still love your partner and don't want to lose her. But the problem is that you don't know how to act in front of your girlfriend to not find out. It is true that you were drunk but this is not a great excuse to forgive you if she finds out. You just slept with her best friend; you really think that she will forgive you? I don't think so. So you've better speak with her friend and tell her that this was just an affair and it is all over now and she must keep the secret.

But what happens if she still uses all her seductive powers on you anytime she has the opportunity and tells you that she loves you from the day she saw you. She agrees with you that she wouldn't tell to your girlfriend about you two if you still accept to meet with her too. Let's say that you accept this, because you are too weak to end your relationship.

Here are some safety tips to follow if you want that your girlfriend to not find out about this: don't permit to your new friend to call you on your cell phone, you may buy a new number just known by her, don't tell at any friend of you about your affair, use always condoms to not have a bad surprise, and if your girlfriend has a suspicion about this, deny.

But you shouldn't play with fire. You love your actual girlfriend but the other is much attractive and sensual. You better think which you like most and make a choice. If you choose to keep your actual relationship, the best thing you can do is to try to not spend much time in the presence of the other, and definitely not stay alone with her somewhere. It may get worse.

Also, you know your girlfriend's best friend very well and it is common to discover that you and her have a lot in common as well, and the more time you spend together, the more attractive she becomes to you. If you discover that the feelings between you and her are very serious, you have a complicated situation in your hands.

The best thing you can do is to break up with your girlfriend, but not to tell her the real reason, say it that it doesn't work anymore; it will be tragic for her anyway so it is better to not find out that you are having an affair with her best friend. This means that you don't have to run in the other's arms after that, it is better that not make public your new relationship for now.

Having an affair is not something plan, it just happens. People decided to have an affair for many reasons: disappointment in the relationship, misunderstanding, also attraction, curiosity, excitement, risk or challenge.

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