How To Keep Love And Sex Alive

By Zaithyn Galter Published 08/1/2007 | Dating

Are you afraid of the 7-year itch and wondering how to escape the boredom and keep the passion ablaze after continuing a relationship for long???

If you are looking for answer to those questions, you can keep on reading

Both love and sex keep a relationship going. Love between two individuals cannot achieve fulfillment without sex and having sex with no feeling of love for your partner has no meaning at all. So, you have to keep both of them alive. How can you do that? Here are our suggestions:

Always make her feel special. Keep on showering compliments on her looks and sexual charm. It will be quite rewarding for her if you tell her how beautiful she looks.

Surprise her by presenting flowers and other lovely gifts without any specific reason. These little things sometimes make a relationship worth continuing.   

You two may have been married for several years, but dont forget to take your spouse out for occasional dates. Theres seldom a better alternative than choosing an old place where you used to go often for a date. It will revive your salad days of courtship.

Make your dates as romantic as possible. You can light candles or play some melodious numbers in the background.

You can go for a long evening walk together. Dont forget to hold her hands while walking by the riverside or strolling through the countryroads.

Jump into the bathtub with your beloved. Say cheers and sip glasses of wine while cuddling her passionately in the tub. Having a shower together will be great to add some spice in your lives.

Regular physical contacts, may not be a sexual one, is necessary for leading a satisfying conjugal life. So, often touch and rub her different body parts while relaxing. You can also massage her with some aromatic oils.

Plant a goodbye kiss on her cheek while leaving for office. After returning home, greet her with a warm hug.

Sometimes, instead of going out, cook some homemade delicacies together and create a restaurant-like ambience at your home for having a romantic dinner, not to forget the flowers and candles!

Try to take some time out from your busy schedule to be with her. Spending quality time in her company will make your bond stronger.

Be honest towards your work and never neglect your profession. Remember that if you are successful, she will be the happiest person on the earth and her love for you will grow. A woman loves a person for what he is; so never let those of your qualities, which once made her head over heels in love with you, go away.

Help in making her dreams come true. Try to understand her innermost desires, be it something personal or professional, and lend her a hand for realizing them.

Give her the respect she deserves from you, because without mutual respect, love cannot sustain longer.

Both-way communication is required in any sort of relationship and in a marital one it becomes mandatory. Otherwise, how can you get a clear idea regarding the physical and emotional yearnings of your spouse? Love just flies out of the window if couples do not communicate in an intimate level.

Pay attention to her needs. Instead of arguing, lend a patient hearing to her words.

In a perfect relationship, both of you are required to give some space to each other. This will help your love for each other to develop.

You two may be poles apart, but theres must be something common between you two some interests or hobbies. The thrill of pursuing a common interest is altogether different. So, look for the magic.

You can get into a proper discussion with her and seek her suggestions for revitalizing your relationship. Put forward your ideas too, but dont force something on her.

Dont just declare your plans, but also demonstrate them in action. If you succeed in keeping your promises, it will surely draw her closer to you and make her love you more.

If you are annoyed of something, then dont keep your anger suppressed. Go and have a heart-to-heart conversation with her.

After stepping into a party, set the dance floor on fire together with your sweetheart. Thus, you can spend some joyous moments of togetherness.

Always make her laugh. Whisper some raunchy jokes into her hear to enliven her sexual mood and also learn the tricks of playing romantic bedroom games.

Never struck out sex from your list of priorities, because regular sex is as important as having food or sleep. Try to find her secret sexual fantasies. Spend a good amount of time on some exciting and adventurous foreplay and then get into the sexual act. Nothing is more invigorating than a session of good sex. Through this, oxytocin, which acts as a bonding chemical, is released.

Stimulating the minds of each other is also necessary besides stimulating the bodies of one another. So, try to make her aroused intellectually.

So, are you ready to experiment with these tips? Just try them and you will surely find connubial bliss!    

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