Men Want a Classy Woman
By Charles Hopkins
Published 04/23/2006 | Dating
Ladies, this one is for you. Your mother always told you Dont give away the farm. Yet men have been saying, Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Its a paradox; women think they need to put out, or theyll lose their man. Men dont want a woman who puts out; at least not long term they dont. Are you the type of woman who men take home to bed; or the type who men take home to meet Mom?
One man described it this way, When Im talking to a woman, either on-line, on the phone, or in person, who do you think is the first person to bring up sex? Almost always its the woman. I dont. I can tell almost instantly if the woman is classy or cheap. I want a woman who is confident, not insecure and thinks she needs to attract me by offering up free sex. What healthy, heterosexual man doesnt want or enjoy sex with a woman? But I dont want someone that everyone else has enjoyed. A classy woman is intriguing, mysterious and alluring. Her appearance and the way she carries herself can be very appealing. Theres a huge difference between sexy and sleazy; and unfortunately many woman dont know the difference.
Ladies wise up! If you dont understand why you keep attracting the wrong men, its because your standards are too low. Set the bar higher. Do not engage in innuendos or blatant conversation that is sexual in nature. Just dont do it. You may think you are flirting; but what you are doing is sending a signal to the man that youre easy. You may hook him for a time. You may both be filled with infatuation, but it wont last. Men will look at you as the good time gal; not as a keeper.
What are you wearing? Low rise jeans and tummy shirts are in. Theyre not in if you dont have the body to wear that style of clothing and theyre not in if youre trying to convince the men that youre a classy lady. That is not to say you need to haul out the turtle neck sweaters and long skirts which cover up your ankles.
You will not be able to change your belief system overnight; your views on what men want. But what you can change almost instantly is how you dress and how you talk. Decide today that you will not openly discuss sex or make comments of a sexual nature with men. There are ways you can let someone know youre interested without sounding like a hootchie mamma. And lastly, take inventory of your wardrobe. Leave a little to the imagination, dont show it all.
Men want a classy woman.