How Will You Know Whether You Are Ready For Marriage?

By Michelle Articles Published 09/23/2008 | Marriage

Marriage is something that many girls think or dream about when they are still kids. However, it is not something that is to be taken lightly because you have to be sure that you have chosen the right person before you finally decide to tie the knot. If you get in to a relationship with someone that you like but he is not the right person for you then you will regret getting married to him sometime or the other in the future. You might even end up divorcing him if he is not the right one for you. So make sure that you find the right person before you decide to marry him.

After deciding that your boyfriend is the perfect man for you, how will you tell whether or not you are ready for marriage? This is a very important question that you should ask yourself. If your boyfriend proposes to you and you are not sure that you are ready for marriage or not, continue reading this article, for here you will learn how to determine whether or not you are ready for marriage.

  1. Financial position- This is the most important factor and you have to consider this before to decide to marry. You should not consider marriage with your boyfriend if the financial conditions of the two of you are not good. It has been found that couples with bad financial status usually end up getting divorced. This does not mean that you should find a rich boyfriend. If the financial condition is stable then you will have less chance to argue with your spouse after you marry. Thus, you should not consider marriage if you are not financially stable.
  1. Do you love him- Marriage should be based on love. If you do not love your partner then you should not marry him because the marriage will not be able to last for a long time. Without love, your relationship will not be able to grow and develop. So make sure that you love your partner before you decide to marry him.

3.     Ask yourself whether you are ready- You need to ask yourself whether or not you are ready to settle down with your boyfriend. Always remember that marriage means forever and if you can not think about spending the rest of your life with your partner, you should not marry him.

These are just three factors that you should consider before you say yes to your boyfriend. Some of the other questions that you should ask yourself before you decide to marry are:

i)                    Are you willing to share your life with your partner?

ii)                   Where will you live after you marriage?

iii)                 Will you have any children?