By and large, guys are\npretty bad when it comes to flirting. It’s time you learn a few of the basics,\nso that you can get an edge over the competition. These flirting tips\nwill have you headed in the right direction in no time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Physical & Verbal cues<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1) Posture and Positioning<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Your posture communicates everything. You need to arch your back and stick out your chest. Take up space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you’re talking to a girl, stand no more than two feet away. Don’t necessarily encroach her space, but stand just a little closer than you might ordinarily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maintain an open body position at all times<\/strong>. Never cross your arms or put your hands in your pockets. If you want to test her to see if she’s into you, step back a foot and see if she follows. If she does come closer, it’s a good sign.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2) Eyes<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The eyes can be your most effective tool for flirting. Use your eyes to give off powerful stares of desire. It’s possible to make a girl’s heart skip a beat by giving her a playful, lusty, or lingering stare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you’re walking by a girl you’ve got the hots for, give her a 2-3 second stare and then slowly glance away (slow is important). Smile just as you start to look away. She’ll get the message.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3) Touch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s OK to lightly\ntouch her shoulder or arm when you’re talking to her. But be careful. Guys have\nto walk a fine line when it comes to touch. Don’t go overboard or you’ll freak\nthe girl out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4) Be aggressive<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Women love guys who aren’t scared to go after what they want. When you show no fear in your pursuit, you come across looking like a confident man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don’t be scared to compliment a girl…tell her what you think. If she’s looking extra nice, go ahead and tell her. Not only will it make her day…she’ll immediately realize that you want her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5) What you should say<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n To be completely honest, if you’re sending out all the right body language, it doesn’t matter what you say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Keep the conversation light, nothing serious or in-depth. Bear in mind, though, that it’s always best to focus on charming her and being complimentary about her looks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can also be flattering by telling her how well she did on an oral report or test, a good game, etc. You can even tease her playfully. Just be sure to send out all the other body signals while you’re talking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mental cues<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1) Exude confidence and self-assuredness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s crucial that you present yourself as a person who feels in control of the situation and isn’t nervous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Put on a show of confidence…girls love guys who are secure. Remember, a confident and secure person is a major turn on. This is why girls are always falling for cocky jerks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Exhibiting insecurity and fear is something you should avoid at all costs. This means no…stammering, fidgeting, wandering eyes (off into the distance), wavering voice, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2) Radiate happiness, enthusiasm, & excitement<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n You’ve got to be full\nof energy and in a positive mind frame to be an effective flirt. If you’re\nkicking out good vibes, your target will pick up on it and rise to your level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Todd Peterson is the\neditor of the popular teen community HighWorld.com<\/p>\n\n\n\n To read other romance\narticles written by Todd, visit: http:\/\/www.highworld.com\/romance\/index.php<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" By and large, guys are pretty bad when it comes to flirting. It’s time you learn a few of the basics, so that you can get an edge over the competition. These flirting tips will have you headed in the right direction in no time. Physical & Verbal cues 1) Posture and Positioning Your posture […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":28136,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":""},"categories":[48],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n