So, you are dating a hunk of a guy whom you find very attractive and very intellectually stimulating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He is such a gentleman, and he\u2019s treating you well. He\u2019s got all the attributes you\u2019re looking for in a lifelong partner, and you want him bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As it applies to everyother things that relates with nitial phase of the dating game, uncertainties abound.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You don\u2019t know if he will reciprocate the level of interest you have for him. All you have are thoughts of him, as well as the memories of the date that was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What would you do for some peace of mind, eh? Luckily, the signs you need are all there, encrypted in some form or another, just waiting for you to decode it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The certainty you\u2019re looking for can be found in these signs, and all you have to do is to take some time to study them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And muster enough courage to accept what may not be favorable for your desires. But who knows, right? He might be into you, after all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, what are these signs, and how, precisely, can you decode them?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n He promised to call, but he didn\u2019t.<\/strong> It may go several ways. He may be buying his time so that he\u2019ll give you the impression that he\u2019s not interested.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll be so surprise when he does reveal his true feelings for you. Or he may simply not have an interest in you. Prepare yourself for any eventuality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He called as soon as he got home<\/strong>. Rejoice, girl! You\u2019ve got a connection! Play your cards right, and he\u2019s in the bag!<\/p>\n\n\n\n He called, even before he could get home<\/strong>. Wow! You don\u2019t have to play your cards right this time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He\u2019s very much into you, and he can\u2019t wait to see you again. The ball is in your court now. So, the consideration would be the time period you would allow the courting process to take. <\/p>\n\n\n\n All his talks at dinner is always about himself, even when you\u2019re about to share your thoughts with him. Uh-oh!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Such act can be a red flag. You have a certain megalomaniac at hand. Stay away as early as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Again, this may go either way. He may be a natural egomaniac who can think of nothing else but himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or he may be trying to impress you with what he believes are his better qualities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or he finds you attractive, but he sees you as someone who would spare some time for his grand tales of personal accomplishments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He said something similar to \u201cyou\u2019re a good friend\u201d.<\/strong> It\u2019s a euphemism for sorry, and I just can\u2019t see you and me together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Take a hint and abandon all hopes. The guy is not just into you, but he is too polite not to say it straight to your face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He said something similar to \u201cyou\u2019re like a sister to me<\/strong>\u201d. Same as above, albeit, in a friendlier more affectionate language.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He didn\u2019t offer to take you home. Forget it! The date was tortuous for him, and he\u2019s happy it\u2019s over and done what he has with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He kept taking those bathroom breaks. This could go in either of three ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Firstly<\/strong>, he may be a married man or is engaged in a serious romantic relationship; hence he\u2019s been excusing himself to get in contact with his girlfriend or wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Secondly<\/strong>, he may be too bored with your company, and he preferred pacing around in between your conversations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or thirdly<\/strong>, he must be suffering from a severe case of diarrhea, this is funny, but it happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n One\u2019s body language is truly the most straightforward way you can be able to know what kind of person the guy is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n And that, you can find out when you are in conversion with him, the way he talks, speaks or carries out other bodily movements will tell it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n His body language is a way you can know his feelings and attitude, which could be negative or positive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So if exhibits such negative body language by avoiding eye contact, starring, cross arms, sweating which could be as a result of nervousness, etc., then, it would be wide to question his intentions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Even tapping of fingers on the table, touching his nose, covering his mouth while speaking, and other facial expressions and gestures can be something to get you worried.<\/p>\n\n\n\n With such a person, you will never get comfortable with him, and there is more to it than you may know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When a guy texts you or chat you up, all in the name to know how and where you are, but hardly calls to ask you such questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then it becomes a cause for concern. Your instincts may not entirely be wrong; especially when you call and no response or even a call back that indicates he missed your calls.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Well, that sometimes, doesn\u2019t mean that he doesn\u2019t want to talk with you, but he indeed has other \u201cpriorities\u201d that requires his attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And probably texted you to make sure you wouldn\u2019t be where he\u2019s about to go with the \u201cother girl\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or maybe, he has a wife, he wouldn\u2019t want you to know, and wouldn\u2019t want the wife to find out either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And please rule out the notion that \u201che\u2019s not good at calling\u201d, how about picking the calls when he\u2019s called ? The attitude simply shows that he\u2019s cheating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Well, this may seem surprising to you, but that doesn\u2019t make it untrue either, to say that you can know a guy by how he pays when you go on dinner or shopping.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Most established guys rarely carry cash around, they do almost everything with their credit card, or it might be that he just desires to show off as one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Those who pay from their wallet \u2013 cash, probably look independent and are always satisfied with what they have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then those who rarely have any cash on them and no credit card as well are only looking for the big fat cow to milk dry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Do not fall for that; trying something different in the guy\u2019s context isn\u2019t the same as yours. What he\u2019s trying to imply is that he\u2019s getting bored, and probably need some fun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He may try to introduce something enticing and different from what you guys have had, but seriously, he\u2019s doing it for himself because probably that\u2019s what he wants and enjoys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And how you would know that is that he wouldn\u2019t ask of your opinion on where to go, he chooses it himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anyways, enjoy it together with him, and create the best memories together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Well, not all of the guy\u2019s language is negative, some mean well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When a guy says he wants to hang around with you in the future, it means he likes you, and probably more like a friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your company entertains him, and he feels happy being with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Conclusion<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Guy\u2019s language might come in various forms, by word of mouth, body language, or even through non-verbal communication; they all pass vital information for you to understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The signs you need are right in front of you. Sometimes, though, they may be too much to bear that we choose not to notice them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don\u2019t allow yourself to feel depressed if he\u2019s not interested in you. There are a lot of guys out there. Failing to win his heart only means that someone better is out there for you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" So, you are dating a hunk of a guy whom you find very attractive and very intellectually stimulating. He is such a gentleman, and he\u2019s treating you well. He\u2019s got all the attributes you\u2019re looking for in a lifelong partner, and you want him bad. As it applies to everyother things that relates with nitial […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":26669,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":""},"categories":[47],"tags":[917,82],"yoast_head":"\n