The chemistry between men and women is all about attraction, isn’t it? It’s been said that when a person feels an attraction to another then nothing else really matters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At\nthe same time, if a person does not feel attraction to another, then likewise,\nnothing else really matters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Being\nphysically attractive, being rich or famous, being the right age all matter\nvery little when attraction is present.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Attraction is the\nkey<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The attraction is the key and it is a strong emotion, in fact, a combination of emotions that causes a person to want to pay attention to another. We seem to learn about it as children and then we become confused about it as adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Remember when you were a child and someone teased you in order to get your attention? Perhaps they threw a bit of paper at you and laughed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or maybe you made a crayon mark on someone’s arm and then looked away, pretending that it was not you who made the mark.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or\nsomeone tapped you on the arm and then ran away. Those were all humorous teases\nthat made us pay attention to the other person and made us attracted enough to\nplay the game further. Attraction between adults is not too different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Teasing with humor<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Teasing\nwith humor is an excellent way to attract the other person’s attention and gain\ntheir interest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When\nthe technique is done well it calls up several emotions. It tells the other\nperson that you are different from the ordinary others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\nalso presents a challenge that the other person will react to and not ignore.\nAnd it causes laughter, which makes the brain and the body react in positive\nways, and tells the other person that there is an opportunity to have fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Key to basic\nattraction<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The\nkey to this basic attraction is to tease\nor flirt in the proper way<\/strong> and to have\nfun<\/strong> with it. The two elements have to go together in a proper balance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If\nthe comment is too cocky or goes too far and does not include humor, then it\nwill be seen as arrogance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n On\nthe other hand, if a person spends too much time joking and being funny, then\nthey will be seen as being just goofy. It’s important that the humor be there\nto balance the provocative comment or action.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In\nreal situations, the teasing with humor technique involves making a provocative comment in a humorous way<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Imagine\na guy pretending not to pay much attention to a woman by not looking at her\ndirectly. He says, “I think you might have spent too much time on your\nhair.” The body language and the comment are provocative and teasing, but\nrather cold and humorless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now\nimagine the same body language with the comment, “I think if you had spent\nany more time with your hair, it would qualify as a career.” Then he looks\nat her squarely. \u201cThough the result is good, I have to admit that I normally\ndon’t date women who are so full of themselves.” Then he cracks a smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\ncombination of teasing body language and verbal comment with a warm poking-fun\nkind of humor will often create a sense of strong attraction in the other\nperson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The\nguy seems provocative, different, challenging, and perhaps fun. Those qualities\narouse the emotions that are the heart of attraction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The\nnext step is for the woman to hit back, something we did as children, but this\ntime with a teasing comment or a flirtatious flip of the hair and turn of the chin\nand the chemistry of attraction is begun<\/p>\n\n\n\n How\nto know someone is attracted and flirting with you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n If a guy touches and sometimes presses your\narms while he talks, it is an obvious sign that he is attracted to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Another sign of attraction by touching is\nfrequent accidental brush on your arm or leg, constant excuses to touch you, brushing\nyour arms often, always giving you lingering hugs and as well, always dusting\nthings off your cloth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If a guy finds you very funny or is very funny while with you, it is an obvious sign of attraction. Your presence and conversation puts him in a good mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Naturally, if you are attracted to someone,\nyou will definitely find that person funny. Therefore, if a man or woman laughs\nat all your jokes, it is obvious he or she is attracted to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A\nprolonged eye contact is a clear indication of attraction. You can only\ndiscover this kind of prolonged eye contact only if you pay attention to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Someone can just naturally be nice and say hi\nand even go further to ask how you are faring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This might not necessarily be a sign of attraction but when in addition they kept prolonged eye contact, you tell it is attraction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n An intensified long-lasting eye contact is way beyond the friendly. It is evidence of something way beyond friendship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Certainly, a friendly eye contact comes as a\nglance or relaxed greeting whereas a flirtatious eye contact comes as an\nextended eye contact followed by a lean, emphasized greeting and Smooth down of\nthe cloth and others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Therefore, if you find someone gazing at you, they\nmay be some indications of attraction. The eye contact is usually filled with\nspark and followed by a smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Another good way of knowing if someone is\nflirting with you or attracted to you is that they will send flirting signals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They seem to be a little friendlier and expect\nyou reciprocate it. They obviously want more from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They give more attention to you than they do\nto others around. They also irrespective of a filled room act as if it is just\nyou in the room or place. They are confident while with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When a guy uses you as a library by borrowing\na movie or book, he is figuring out how to stay connected with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Definitely, he will return what he borrowed\nand would want to talk about the content. This is a creative convenient way of hanging\nout and spending time with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n By making out time for you to two to talk\nabout what you share in common, you are both building up and the other person\nbecomes part of your life in no time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For instance, you told the woman that you love\ndogs and she always sends you images and videos of cute dogs, it is a sign of\nattraction and flirt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Also, if a man or woman texts you regularly\nwith flirty emojis and words, and remembers your interest, it is a clear sign\nof attraction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The kind of question a person attracted to you\nasks is usually in-depth and many. The questions are all geared towards knowing\nyou more and in turn getting close to you. That is simply attraction and\nflirting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The question a person attracted to you asks is\nusually above friendly and also quite personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The person might like to know about your\nchildhood, your college experience, and lots of other questions. This is simply\nan easy way of starting a flirtatious conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If a man is always jokey and constantly teases\nyou instead of been mean, it is a sign that he wants you to tease him right\nback and this indicates attraction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Making fun of you or teasing you is a sign\nthat he feels great comfort when around you. He pays great attention however to\nwhat he feels secure to tease you about and leaves out the insecure ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A whole lot of persons like compliment. Surprisingly,\nanother sign of attraction is constant compliment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Most people flirt with you by complementing\nyour figure, your eyes color, hair, cloth and lots more. They do these to make\nyou feel good by ensuring you know they notice and appreciate you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Another clue of flirt or attraction is that they\nwill mention in one way or the other that they are single and would want to\nfigure if you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This will let both of you know how available\nyou are in other to figure out if he can continue building what he started and\nput a stop to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bottom\nline<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes, it might be hard to know if someone\nis attracted to you or not because some people have different ways of showing\ntheir attraction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Simply ensure you enjoy yourself, flirt for a\nlittle while with other people you think you are interested in, await their\nreciprocal and generally wait for someone to ask you out. However, teasing,\nflirtation and humor among others are keys to attraction. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" The chemistry between men and women is all about attraction, isn’t it? It’s been said that when a person feels an attraction to another then nothing else really matters. At the same time, if a person does not feel attraction to another, then likewise, nothing else really matters. Being physically attractive, being rich or famous, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":25765,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":""},"categories":[47,48],"tags":[82],"yoast_head":"\n